A loving, lasting, committed relationship One of the greatest challenges that gay men face today is deciding to be in a long-term committed relationship and then learning how to make it work. Dr. Kantor busts the myths that exist in the gay community about relationships and gives gay men a model for healthy, happy marriages (legal or not). Learn: -Why the fate of your relationship is more important than the health and well-being of your sofa -Why you should choose commitment and work to make the relationship strong -How to have good, plenty, and forever sex -The secrets of keeping your man, your friends and your family happy (even "difficult" loved ones) -Ways to avoid damage to your relationship from third parties that don't have your best interests at heart Dr. Martin Kantor is a psychiatrist specializing in gay men's issues. He is the author of My Guy. He lives with his partner of 22 years in New Jersey.